By Abdulhafiz Mohammed
Life is full of decisions. From the moment we wake up, we’re faced with choices—what to eat, what to wear, whether to study or binge-watch our favourite series. While some decisions feel small, others like relationships, or future goals, appear overwhelming.
As teenagers, life can feel like one big decision tree — what to wear, what courses to take, or even what snacks to grab. Let’s talk about how to navigate this wild maze called decision-making.
For most teenagers, making decisions feels like standing at a crossroads with no map. Why is it so tricky.
1. Fear of Regret: What if you make the wrong choice? That “what if” can be paralysing.
2. Too Many Options: Sometimes, the sheer number of choices makes it hard to pick just one.
3. Perfectionism: The desire to make the “perfect” decision can leave you stuck. Instead of choosing and moving forward, perfectionism often leads to endless analysis and self-doubt.
4. Lack of Confidence: When you doubt your judgment, every decision feels like a potential mistake. This insecurity can stop you from trusting your instincts.
5. Fear of Judgment: Worrying about what others will think of your decision can make the process harder. You might prioritise approval over what’s genuinely best for you.
Types of Decisions You’ll Face
Everyday Decisions: What to eat, what to wear, or which activities to join. These might seem small, but they reflect your priorities and help you build habits.
Future-Focused Decisions: What subjects to study, what career to pursue, or what goals to set. These might seem far away, but small choices now build the foundation for your future.
Social Decisions: How to handle conflicts, or whether to stand up for someone. These choices shape your relationships and values.
How to Make Better Decisions
1. Know Yourself
Understanding your values is key. What matters to you? Is it honesty, loyalty, creativity, or success? Knowing this makes it easier to choose what aligns with your goals.
2. Don’t Rush
Sometimes the best decision is made after you take a moment to think. Pause and ask yourself: Does this decision reflect who I want to be?
3. Consider the Long-Term
Sure, skipping that project might feel good now, but how will it affect your grades? Always think about how today’s choices impact your future.
4. Seek Advice
Talk to people you trust. They don’t have to decide for you, but hearing different perspectives can help.
5. Learn from Your Mistakes
Not every decision will be perfect—and that’s okay. Mistakes are part of growth. What matters is that you reflect and try to do better next time.
Finally, one of the most empowering things about being a teenager is realising that you’re in control. Sure, adults might have more say right now, but your decisions today pave the way for your independence tomorrow.
So, the next time you’re stuck on a choice, remind yourself: it’s your life, your decision, your power. And whatever you decide, own it like the boss you are.
Teenage years are messy, but they’re also magical. Embrace the chaos and grow into the person you’re destined to be.
You’ve got this.